Irresistibility means that people feel drawn to you; they love your energy and want to spend time around you. It’s that magnetism that some people seem to “just have.”
But thankfully you don’t have to be born with irresistibility to have it; there are many ways to improve and achieve the goal of having THE irresistibility factor.
9 Tips to Be INSTANTLY Irresistible
Now too often than not, people are worried about what they’re going to say or what clothes they are wearing when trying to impress; however, this is not what impacts people.
If you want to be irresistible you need to master the nonverbals of irresistibility. It’s not what you say but how you say it.
Around 65–90% of our communication is made through things like gestures, facial expressions, voice tone, posture, and movement.
So are you sending the right message with your nonverbal cues? Here are 9 easy nonverbals that can set you ahead of the game.
#1 Master Your First 7 Seconds
According to research, It only takes a fraction of a second to make a lasting impression on a stranger. And even better: you don’t get a second chance at making a first impression. So here are a few things you can do to maximize this tiny fraction of a moment you have with someone else.
- Use good posture. Princeton studies have shown that people are better at reading body language than facial expressions.
- Make eye contact to seem more confident and friendly.
- Wear confident clothes. What outfit makes you the most comfortable? Try to wear things that will ensure your nerves don’t get the best of you and you have one less thing to think about.
#2 Use Dynamic Hand Gestures
Next time you’re explaining that funny story to your co-worker, pull your hands out of your pockets and use them to help communicate. One can visually track your hands during conversation to better understand the intention.